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A Recipe for Loving Someone

A wise recipe · Love and kindness

A Recipe for Loving Someone

The one Soot says she never writes down, then writes down anyway.

Enough for a whole household · Slow, always slow

Ingredients

  • One noticing — what they need before they ask
  • A generous pour of patience
  • Small kindnesses, chopped fine and used often
  • The last cookie, given away
  • Words said out loud, not just meant

How it's done

  1. 1

    Notice something small and mention it.

  2. 2

    Do the boring helpful thing nobody thanked you for.

  3. 3

    Say the words. Out loud counts double.

  4. 4

    When you are cross, wait for the kettle to boil before you speak.

  5. 5

    Do it again tomorrow. That's the whole method.

Give one small kindness away today without telling anyone.

Nobody does it alone.

Cover of Soot Bakes It All

Soot Bakes It All

The book this kitchen came from — Soot bakes her way through the first snow, and the whole hill turns up hungry.

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